07-24-2006, 06:26 PM
<!--QuoteBegin-vishwas+Jul 24 2006, 09:26 AM-->QUOTE(vishwas @ Jul 24 2006, 09:26 AM)<!--QuoteEBegin--><!--QuoteBegin--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE<!--QuoteEBegin-->The no of kids one chooses to have would be their personal choice. Weather they chose to produce a heard of sheep and let them lose to live or die, or choose to bring up just one child devoting all their financial and mental resources for his/her best growth, thats on individuals.<!--QuoteEnd--><!--QuoteEEnd-->
Of course, it is individual choice. All I am saying is that, Hindus having larger families than today is a good idea. By that I don't mean , one must have 25 children. But <b>around four (give or take one)</b> is actually a good idea.
About your comment about growing ONE child with all possible financial and mental resources, one of the resources a child needs is siblings. Brothers and sisters provide a child with a larger network at birth itself. And it is a very close and intimate network, sort of like a micro-community by itself. The values and priorities set in this community by his parents will have a lasting effect on him. The child will also be able to call on this network when he or she needs help.
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Agree. So the couples are more likely to base their dissision based on their family's needs not that of hinduisim. Each member could be successful and prosperous in their own way they think fit and use that success and prosperity to then help hinduisim. that's kinda a way jews work.
Admins this is probably going too off topic. feel free to put a lid on it.
Of course, it is individual choice. All I am saying is that, Hindus having larger families than today is a good idea. By that I don't mean , one must have 25 children. But <b>around four (give or take one)</b> is actually a good idea.
About your comment about growing ONE child with all possible financial and mental resources, one of the resources a child needs is siblings. Brothers and sisters provide a child with a larger network at birth itself. And it is a very close and intimate network, sort of like a micro-community by itself. The values and priorities set in this community by his parents will have a lasting effect on him. The child will also be able to call on this network when he or she needs help.
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Agree. So the couples are more likely to base their dissision based on their family's needs not that of hinduisim. Each member could be successful and prosperous in their own way they think fit and use that success and prosperity to then help hinduisim. that's kinda a way jews work.
Admins this is probably going too off topic. feel free to put a lid on it.